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Seattle's Space Needle from the ground
Seattle’s Space Needle (biz trip)

 

atop Seattle's Space Needle
atop Seattle’s Space Needle

 

What should we call these moments when they happen to us?

Those little moments when we do something that sort of embarrasses us, and we are so tempted to stop…

But we don’t.

And when we’re done, we are somehow gifted with the fact that we may have just inspired someone in that moment of not stopping.

Monday, I saw a father hug his 12-year old son in the school parking lot as the Head of School walked to her car.

You could tell there was a moment when the dad thought, “Maybe my son is too tall and too old to be hugging in the school parking lot.”

And when it was done, a thought occurred to the dad. Maybe the Principal was also trying to stop doing something, like staring and feeling completely heart-warmed and over-joyed.

Weird.

This is a true story. I was there. So was my son.

And tempted again to stop… right here, right now (plowing through it… )

The after-school hug has been a daily tradition for ten years.

Weird.

Be well and remain amazed.

Do your thing that brings you joy. Do it for yourself and those you care about.

And maybe, just maybe, it may be exactly what someone else needs desperately to see or hear, exactly when they need it.

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What would happen to us if we celebrated our birthday everyday?

photo of weird sign
no one has a foggy notion as to why we don’t celebrate everyday

 

What would happen to us if we celebrated our birthday everyday?

Why don’t we?

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This month jeff noel is encouraging Mid Life Celebration readers to follow all five daily blogs about work life balance. It’s a breeze to go from this spiritual health blog to the money (career) blog, just click -> go to Next Blog

 

Lorie said she doesn’t need to remain anonymous

a condominium sign
Dave Eitel lived uncommonly well

Lorie Sheffer has been my friend since first grade. Here’s Lorie’s reply to me asking if she’d mind me using her email:

“Jeff, this one was a no-brainer. Dave Eitel was one of the most wonderful people I’ve ever known. We weren’t terribly close, just friendly neighbors with kids who knew one another. But he was one of those people who made everyone feel special. I’d run into him at the grocery store, and he would act like seeing me was the highlight of his day. He did that to everyone.

After Gary’s stroke, I was so terrified, and I asked for him. He wasn’t on duty, but as soon as he got my message he came up from the ER and read through Gary’s chart and spoke to me. He didn’t sugar coat how bad it was, but he made me feel more calm just by being there. He was so kind when I saw him in the ICU, when Dad was in a coma.

When I texted Ian that Dave had died, the first thing he said was, “I hope he was at home surrounded by his family.” And he was.”

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This month jeff noel is encouraging Mid Life Celebration readers to follow all five daily blogs about work life balance. It’s a breeze to go from this spiritual health blog to the money (career) blog, just click -> go to Next Blog

The most influential man in history and why

unconditional love
man’s best friend for a reason – unconditional love (same with Jesus)

 

The most influential man in history? Jesus.

Why? No other person, ever, has left such a compelling argument that Love is all that matters. That there is no place for violence, for any reason.

Ever.

That forgiveness, for even the most heinous sin, is possible.

That’s literally impossible to comprehend.

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