Four things dying people want to say to their loved ones The one in the middle is who the book was written to. Four things dying people probably want to, and should, say to the ones they love most: Thank you I love you Forgive me I forgive you Inspired by this TED Talk. Not recommending anyone view the 21-minute video. Just sharing the source. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.