Talking about hate, war, and forgiveness

Child coin purses with peace signs
Poignant reminders can come from anywhere, like the toy isle in a hardware store.

 

Dear Son, we talked about hate and war last night.

About the Family that forgave the heinous murders at the Church.

A 14-year old doesn’t (and may never) understand that forgiveness is the only way to make a stand that frees the “victims” from bitterness and despair.

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Stunned by what’s happening in Charleston

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Unknown photographer. Four great topics for the world to embrace.

 

Stunned by what’s happening in Charleston. Saw a video yesterday of Family members forgiving the killer of their loved ones. The thief was on camera, listening to the voices of the Family.

It’s a modern day example of Jesus.

Jesus would say, forgive.

Today’s race is quietly dedicated to more extraordinary love like Charleston is offering the killer world.

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Where forgiveness needs to start

Catholic Church Mission speaker
Last night, February 3, 2015

 

Catholic Church Mission speaker
Last night, February 3, 2015

 

The starting line for forgiveness is obvious.

Or at least it should be.

Is it obvious for you?

Seriously, is it 100% of the time?

Would it change you if it was?

Would it change others?

Obviously, it starts out as an inside job.

And remains an inside job until we die.

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Strength can be invisible

Window seat on Delta Airlines

 

Ear plug made out of gum

 

(photos: Strength can be invisible, like quietly putting chewing gum in your ear)

Love Delta Airlines? Yes!!

Love the unusually loud and high pitched sound inflight from MSP to PDX for three hours yesterday? No.

Tried many things, unsuccessfully.

Then the lightbulb moment.

Chewing gum.

Had to chew a second round for the other ear.

No one knew.

The ease in which bad mouthing the airline could have spewed forth was staggering.

But it didn’t. Not even for a second.

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World class forgiveness is the only way to free ourselves

Flower Garden in Allentown, PA

 

(photo: 30 years ago, a wedding party took some wonderful photos here – revisited the place because it was only a jog away from Cedarbrook Nursing home)

Is it possible that when we are angry and unwilling to forgive someone could it really be possible that we are actually angry with ourselves?

If we are unwilling to forgive ourselves, we will never be able to forgive others.

We unknowingly channel our discontent with ourselves into our outward behaviors to others.

Wish it wasn’t true.

The only antidote is to accept this, admit it, spend serious time (possibly years) rethinking, reprioritizing, and then recommitting to forgiving ourselves.

World class forgiveness is the only way to free ourselves. For good.

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