i asked the 90-year old, like i always do when we visit, “Are you afraid?”
Carrying a sense of obligation to help him articulate that he’s ok with his situation, even as it deteriorates.
Maybe i’ve tried long enough and hard enough.
Maybe next visit i don’t even mention it or concern myself with it.
It’s worth a try.
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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.
Larry and i hadn’t communicated for 30 years. As we spent five hours catching up, he responded to a section of our conversation where i had made significant changes in my life (2008-2009), particularly starting a business and the plan to retire from Disney at 55 (i was 49 at the time i made the plan).
Larry said something i had never considered. He said:
You took control of your life.
i had never considered that notion. In fact, it seemed quite the opposite. So i shared with him that perhaps in relinquishing control, i gained control.
It wasn’t until i surrendered everything to God that i was able to “take control” of my life.
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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.
This website is about our spiritual health. To leave this site to read today’s post on jeff’s career health website, click here.