Preparing for death is one of the most empowering things

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Gratitude is a SUPER power. So is intentionality.

 

Preparing for death is one of the most empowering things you can do.

This is hard for most of us to believe.

Why?

Because so few of us have had role models showing us the way.

Be the change – this battle cry (be the change) has a more urgent meaning now, right?

 

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Will your death be the third most magnificent day in your life?

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Jane and Larry Brockman’s wedding day, 1970. They moved to Orlando from California in 1984 and began serving at Holy Family Orlando Catholic Church.

 

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Jane and Larry Brockman’s family, mid-late 1970’s. They had five children, and as of yesterday, 13 grandchildren.

 

Family memories
Jane Brockman’s life. Highlights from the first half of her 70 years.

 

Family memories
Jane Brockman’s life remembered- highlights from the second half of Jane’s 70 years.

 

Will your death be the third most magnificent day in your life?

Depends entirely on your beliefs.

Whatever you believe, my wish for you is that you believe like you mean it.

Yesterday was Jane’s funeral at Holy Family.

Larry, Jane’s husband and one of our Deacons, gave a wonderful tribute to Jane. Jane’s middle daughter, Katie, did the same.

It was beautiful.

Glorious even.

 

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Discipline

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Mike helps us with home improvement projects. His wife and my wife work together at Disney. Photo: yesterday after i walked home from the gym.

 

Just like going to the gym, or going running or biking, you need daily discipline to focus on your spirit.

Mike (above) and i had a deep, yet casual conversation about life and death.

A few years back, Mike was one of two people in a group of 11 who survived cancer treatment.

His cancer is back.

Mike has two choices.

He can opt to not have his ear removed, and die sooner than later.

Or…

He can have his ear removed, along with a big patch of the side of his face – down to the bone. A patch from his leg will be removed to reconstruct what’s taken from his face. Remove a couple teeth, reroute glands, nerves, etc.

He joked about his conversations with his Doctors who discussed prosthetic ear options.

Mike suggested a Star Trek Vulcan ear, so he can say he’s half Vulcan, like Spock.

Or, how about an on/off switch for when he’s near his wife.

His courage, faith, and perspective inspire me.

He’s an Army veteran.

He knows all too well how fragile and ugly llife is and how all we can do is make choices and move forward.

Consistently thinking this way requires a learned and applied discipline.

My advice to is this: learn it and apply it.

 

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What if he would have said…

Martin Luther King
Last night on ABC Evening News, a piece remembering the anniversary of Martin Luther King’s death. Had to write down the essence of his speech and how profoundly simple his goal was and remains today.

 

Martin Luther King’s “I have a dream” speech was delivered the day before his assassination.

His assassination happened April 4, 1968, 50 years ago yesterday.

What if Martin Luther King would have said…

I have a strategic plan.

A big part of our spiritual belief is manifested in our word choice.

i have a strategic plan for Mid Life Celebration, LLC.

i have a dream for Mid Life Celebration, LLC.

MLK was aiming for respect, fairness, and equality.

We are still aiming.

 

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When is the best time to say goodbye to a loved one?

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Yesterday inside our lunch location. PS. Every day is a good day to talk openly about life and all it means.

When is the best time to say goodbye to a loved one?

My theory is “sooner rather than later”.

Live a life that seizes your days and the people closest to you are crystal clear about how you feel about them.

Carry no baggage.

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