Dear Son

Living In A Moment...
Living In A Moment...

Randy Pausch, who wrote The Last Lecture, and shortly thereafter, died, wrote a book about living while he was dying.

I’m writing a book about living while I’m living.

We are all dying, son, it’s simply a fact of life.

Leave a trail for your Family. That’s what I’m doing for you, son.

Yesterday, as my crazy mind was racing, I recalled Randy’s life, his book, and both touched my soul and inspired me, as well as countless millions. And the sad fact that his “anniversary” is soon – July 25. Two years ago Randy left his earthly life.

Somehow, I recalled the cassette tapes I used to make for your Mother. I’d pour over our CD collection, for hours, and create loving tributes for your Mom.

Must have been five or six tapes total. Most likely over 100 of the best Love songs ever written. Most of them Country songs, and most of them obscure songs, meaning they weren’t hits or mainstream.

Here’s one of them, called “Living In A Moment (You Would Die For)”:

On A Scale Of 1-10

Cat's In A Cradle?
Cat's In A Cradle?

How do you measure success?

How often do you measure it?

Do you have a consistent method?

Does it even matter?

What do you do if you are doing poorly, or, really well?

How do you avoid giving up, or, getting complacent?

These are things we all need to figure out.

So last night I asked our son, On a scale of one to ten, how much do you think I love you?

His answer really surprised me.

Bloggers Blog Because

Honeymoon In Puget Sound
Honeymoon In Puget Sound

Bloggers Blog for many reasons.

What’s yours?

Having a blog is really like having a cell phone number, or a snail mail address.

But most people aren’t dialed into this yet.

The longer you wait, the less likely the domain name you would like to have will be available.

Bloggers can also write about anything they want to.

Happy 27th Anniversary Cheryl.

I love you.

The best is yet to come.

Personal Responsibilty

Don't Get Caught Sleeping
Don't Get Caught Sleeping

Personal responsibility is yours and yours alone.

This is a tough lesson to learn.

In the animal kingdom, if you don’t learn it, you become someone else’s dinner.

In a way, it happens to humans, just not in the literal sense.