Peace with who you are, content with what you have

expectations gap and unhappiness
Expectations gap and unhappiness – first example. Our imagination (hopeful expectations) is greater than our reality (actual outcomes).

 

expectations gap and unhappiness
expectations gap and unhappiness

 

 

Dying well is directly proportional to our ability to accomplish two simple concepts.

To accomplish these two soon enough in our life so that we can live the rest of our life carrying peace and contentment everywhere we go.

  1. Peace with who you are
  2. Content with what you have

Managing our expectations begins by creating our big picture expectation – what we can refer to as our “vision”.

 

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Board of Directors advice

JB Adams
Tried to catch the time but was too late. We spoke for 110 minutes.

 

From a spiritual perspective, Jesus is the Chairman of my Board of Directors.

My earthly Board Chairman is JB.

What i envisioned as a quick 3-minute conversation while biking to the gym yesterday, turned into an almost 2-hour conversation.

i asked, “Is it egregious for me to accept bargain basement prices for a multi-day contract when i can make significantly more for a 60-minute Keynote?”

Their current year fee-proposal is significantly less than last year’s deeply discounted contract.

My offer for their out-of-state contract includes volume discount, up-front pricing, and consideration for our previous work – which was steeply discounted last year to earn their business (an experiment on my end, if you will).

If out-of-state Keynote Speeches earn $25k and Orlando Keynotes earn $15k – which includes a $7,500k discount for zero-travel, plus a $2.5k discount for 100% upfront payment). – is it a poor distracting business decision?

JB asked what my priorities are.

“To launch our 11th-grade Son into the real world in 2019. To help organizations who want to change the world. And to make alot of money to give to a cause i support.”

The math:

  • Three days away from home for a total fee under $10k
  • or…
  • A couple hours, leaving and returning to my driveway on the same day, for $15k.

To me, it feels egregious.

PS. Disney Institute just proposed a $46k one-day Orlando seminar (but not on Disney property) to a potential client who contacted me to see if i can do the same thing at a lower cost. Of course. My daily fee (transparently posted on my website) is $39k. However, if it’s in Orlando, and 100% paid upfront, my $39k fee is reduced enough to become a steal compared to Disney Institute.

Literally a steal.

So now that “steal”, compared to what the multi-day client is proposing can be defined only as a glaringly poor business decision.

 

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Humble yourself to opportunities and you shall receive

Gaping Void Art
Serendipitous Gaping Void (my fav cartoonist Hugh McLeod) cartoon yesterday.

 

Humble yourself to opportunities and you shall receive.

They qualified for my best keynote Speech fee because:

  • It’s in Orlando
  • There are no travel expenses
  • They paid 100% upfront

However, their contracted speaker’s fee was only a third of my best, local price.

And therefore, i wasn’t gonna be a possibility for them, even though they were desperate.

And they were seriously desperate.

Sixty people with plane tickets coming in for the annual conference.

i picked the right thing to do.

Their fee was honored – a price i would never accept normally.

We had less than 24 hours to make this work.

i worked hard to make it work.

They needed a hero.

Knowing this, how could i deny them?

 

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Even when you choose not to decide

Lake Mabel Rural Enclave
Public meeting last night at Sunset Park Elementary.

 

Lake Mabel Rural Enclave
Cafeteria.

 

Lake Mabel Rural Enclave
There are only four small rural enclaves in all of Orange County Florida. At stake is the conflict between investors and rural homeowners.

 

Even when you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

Good on you for deciding to be part of a Church community.

Many either don’t establish this structure and process or they began strong but fall away from it.

Community means a group of like-minded people.

When you get older and feel lonely, remember we reap what we sow.

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