Zealot’s do not budge

child watering flowers
This $2.00 K-Mart (remember K-Mart) poster reflects the vision i had of our home long before we became parents.

The classic zealot move is the move where you refuse to budge, refusing to accept any other view than your “etched in stone” view.

Can you imagine?

Of course.

Another classic zealot characteristic is believing you have no blind spots.

We clearly see the plank in other’s eye, yet we deny the plank in our eye.

This is bad news for all us us, trying to imagine our blindspots.

We all have blindspots.

The good news, you are in charge of the things you can control. You can over-focus on uncovering the truth about your blindspots. It may take a lifetime.

You are also in charge of completely letting go of the things you cannot control.

How cool is that?

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Biggest turnout in anyone’s memory…

Royal Ranch Estates Homeowner's Association meeting Feb 23, 2014
Biggest turnout in anyone’s memory


Everyone was praying (or whatever their equivalent is) that the new neighbors will be good and decent people.

Odds are very, very high.

Yet many worry about change and the unknown.

A natural, human feeling.

The more years we live, the more we learn to let go of – all that stuff we now fully realize is uncontrollable.

(decent chance the new folks’ net worth is a billion dollars)

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