Facebook seemed so important a few minutes ago

marketing video crew
The home next door had a film crew shooting a commercial for a local fence company. We talked about us working together.

 

Disney speakers
A month later, i finally reached out to Rod, for an introduction to his Sales Director.

 

Worrying about keeping up on Facebook?

Don’t want to get left behind on Facebook and other people’s lives?

What about your own?

Your life.

Keeping up.

Falling behind.

Your endless capacity for maintaining a positive attitude?

Your dedication for doing the hard work to create and maintain vibrant health habits?

Your burning desire to live without hate, anger, greed as well as to lead with compassion, forgiveness, and generosity?

Your drive and determination to be the best in the world at what you do for a living?

Your tireless motivation to manage the paperwork of life at home?

Wow.

Facebook seemed so important a few minutes ago.

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It was easier than i thought

Apple Store Mall at Millenia
Yesterday at Mall at Millenia for a business meeting.

 

It was easier than i thought. And it was not the reason for the meeting. Had a business meeting yesterday which included an opportunity to personally share that i have disconnected with 360 people on personal Facebook (as opposed to Facebook Pages). Normally, the stereotypical first reaction when someone “unfriends us” is anger, hurt, and confusion. This did not happen.

 

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Facebook spirit

iPhone 6s passcode screen
Try again, to improve, or just settle for doing what the Herd is doing?

 

Facebook spirit, aka our emotional attachment to Facebook.

Is our self-worth tied to likes, comments, number of “friends”?

Is our self worth tied to the joy, excitement, accomplishment, and love demonstrated in our posts?

Is our self worth tied to the diversity of our life – the well-rounded front we share?

Is our self worth an illusion because we (generally, and of course there are exceptions) post only our life’s “highlight” reel?

 

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Facebook midlife crisis

Self doubt encouragement
Social Media, particularly Facebook, can have insidiously negative side effects.

 

Facebook midlife crisis.

What is the point of Facebook?

To:

  • Brag?
  • Complain?
  • Compare?
  • Sell?
  • Laugh?
  • Be somebody?
  • Prove something?

How many friends are too many, too few, or just right?

When you have hundreds, is it ok to secretly mute their notifications? If one of your friends mutes you on their account, your posts are never seen by your friend.

How much time spent trying to keep up is too much, not enough, or just right?

If you stopped posting updates, would anyone notice? Would anyone care?

Why do we hit the ‘Like’ button so often?

Why don’t we hit the ‘Like’ button more often?

Why? What? How? When?

How do i stop (habitually) reaching for my phone every spare moment to see if there are more updates – that little red circle with a number that insidiously makes me feel important (or lonely).

 

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