Dear son, please give the extra money to Ms. Y

Church Mass presentation
First Sunday of Lent 2015… what is God’s dream for you?

 

Last Wednesday was our son’s classmate’s 14th birthday. And, coincidently, Wednesday is also the optional midweek classroom dinner at a local restaurant. A tradition started by Ms Y, an attorney turned (brilliant) Montessori middle school teacher. She has two daughters at the school, one is also a middle school classmate.

Gave our son twice the dinner allowance and suggested he give the surplus to Ms Y, to pay for his classmates (birthday) dinner, but with a caveat. Ask Ms Y to keep it a secret and don’t tell anyone.

Trying to teach what books struggle to keep up with – the notion that in giving, we receive. And to learn to give without expecting credit or reward.

To learn that the giving, in and of itself is the reward.

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Hear the echo of, “This is probably too difficult”?

American Dinner time table
Two nights ago, what did he see and feel that was “invisible and unspoken”?

 

Is there an echo in here?

We should behave so that our children (if we are parents) have a real-life example, or as close as humans can get, of what Jesus is like.

Where else will they get this?

Seriously?

Where?

A book, a class, stories?

You’re joking, right?

What if they saw it across the dining room table? Everyday.

If not now, when?

If not ever, why?

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What is our major responsibility each day?

Martin Luther King Jr photo from prison
Photo from a Facebook update yesterday.

 

What is our major responsibility each day?

To model to our child, children, nieces and nephews how to live gracefully in a world that attacks us from every side.

Life is hard.

Our major responsibility is to show how it’s possible to thrive in spite of this harsh reality.

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Dear Son, you’re getting there, slowly

Disney pontoon boat shuttle to Disney's Port Orleans Riverside
Disney pontoon boat shuttle to Disney’s Port Orleans Riverside. Saratoga Springs DVC in background.

 

DVC lookout tower near Disney's Old Key West Resort
DVC lookout tower near Disney’s Old Key West Resort

 

Cirque du Soleil
Entering Downtown Disney from behind Cirque du Soleil

 

On this 2015 Walt Disney Marathon weekend Sunday, as we prepare to leave home for Mass, just overheard our son (14) say, “I don’t see the point to why we have to get there 15 minutes early.”

Later today, there will be an opportunity to ask him, “Why do you think we arrive at your YuGiHo tournaments 30 minutes early?”

Self-evident sometimes takes time to nurture. Years even. Sometimes longer.

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